why do you change to feel loved

why should we try to be ourselves? what if we aren't our crush's type? isn't life all about changing? yes, but not for other people. "just be yourself" is cliche, but it's also difficult.being genuine isn't easy. it means opening yourself up to criticism and discomfort. but the pay off is being able to live your life in a way that feels real, not like you're having to fit a mold.stop performing for your crush. a real partner will be attracted to you for the person you are. but is only put on display if you truly let it.sending you lots of love and peeeeeeaaaaaaaace!https://stan.store/thezurkieshow⁠