Why does achievement culture feel so stifling?

Welcome to Parenting Breakdown!  In this episode, Matt and Rachel discuss the relentless pressure on kids (and parents!) within high-achieving school communities.  Topics explored:  - A listener question about how to stay grounded as a parent within high-pressure school cultures  - The impact of grind culture on parents and kids - and what parents can do to slow down and reclaim their energy  - What are you parenting in service of? Exploring the discrepancy between what kids and parents say matters most to parents  Parenting Highlight of the Week:  - Rachel talks about how the WNBA has helped their family talk about gender equity.  Parenting Pivot of the Week:  - Rachel disrupts the evening routine to try and create a special moment and Matt is not happy.  References:  - Adrienne Marie Brown: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/239-why-are-we-never-satisfied-with-adrienne-maree-brown/id1564530722?i=1000627034489  - Suniya Luthar: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/articles/201311/the-problem-rich-kids    - Beth Benjamin Cooper: https://www.nais.org/magazine/independent-school/winter-2022/trend-lines-challenging-achievement-culture-in-schools/   Reach out to us with your questions and stories at [email protected].  Want to learn more about who we are?  www.rachelhenes.com www.mattbordencoaching.com