Why Does It Hurt So Much When The Team Your Support Loses

Episode 118 of the The Grief Code podcast, hosted by Ian Hawkins, titled "Why Does It Hurt So Much When The Team Your Support Loses" was published on May 3, 2022 and runs 7 minutes.

May 3, 2022 ·7m · The Grief Code

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Episode Description

In this episode, Ian explains why simply a discussion of sadness upon grief upon grief that threw you over the brink, and something that shouldn't have been that distressing tipped you over. And the reason why this irritates your family, friends, and admirers is because there is an aspect of them feeling out of control of the situation.

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How frequently do you feel powerless?
Ian reflects on why we get so involved and committed: we want something for ourselves as a result of the satisfaction that comes with witnessing others succeed.
Ian also explains that because there are a lot of unhealed and damaged individuals out there who are simply direct writing and expressing their frustrations and otherwise normal behaviour.
Ian discusses how you have the ability to reclaim your power, your strength, and your self-control.

About the Host:

Ian Hawkins is the Founder and Host of The Grief Code. Dealing with grief firsthand with the passing of his father back in 2005 planted the seed in Ian to discover what personal freedom and legacy truly are. This experience was the start of his journey to healing the unresolved and unknown grief that was negatively impacting every area of his life. Leaning into his own intuition led him to leave corporate and follow his purpose of creating connections for himself and others.

The Grief Code is a divinely guided process that enables every living person to uncover their unresolved and unknown grief and dramatically change their lives and the lives of those they love. Thousands of people have now moved from loss to light following this exact process.

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