Why Doing Everything Right Still Leaves Men Lost

Every time a testosterone clinic pops up along the highway, third-generation chiropractor Dr. Kyle Hulsebus gets the same question from patients: "Doc, is it low testosterone?" After years of testing men from their 20s to their 80s, his answer is almost always no. On this episode of the Men's Therapy Podcast, host Marc Azoulay sits down with Dr. Kyle to unpack why testosterone myths have become the default explanation for a much deeper problem: the existential crisis that quietly hits men around 40, when the life they built no longer feels like a fit.Dr. Kyle created the 40 Over 40 program, a scattered mix of physical, mental, spiritual, and somatic practices for men entering midlife, deliberately unorganized because he doesn't believe in one-size-fits-all solutions. The conversation covers the two archetypes he sees most in his practice (the man who feels behind in life, and the man who did everything "right" yet still feels hollow), why he's skeptical of the term toxic masculinity, and why breathwork, not bloodwork, is where he tells almost everyone to start. It closes with a personal story about a friend who appeared to have it all and died by suicide, and what that taught Dr. Kyle about chasing an objective versus chasing a fantasy.For more podcasts, blogs, and to get involved in the Men's Therapy Online Community, visit www.menstherapy.online.Follow us on social media: https://mtr.bio/mens-therapy-online.