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EPISODE · Nov 20, 2025 · 34 MIN

Why Everything Is Happening FOR You (Not To You)

from Earn Your Happy · host Lori Harder | YAP Media

I had a moment on a recent podcast interview that hit me straight in the soul. In this episode, I’m talking about the identity-shifting moments of my life, growing up isolated in a religion, getting bullied, facing constant rejection door-to-door, and later the public judgment that came with building a business. These are the exact moments I used to resent, and they’re now the ones I’m most grateful for. I’m breaking down how resistance, shame, judgment, and even the stuff you never tell anyone ends up becoming the exact training that equips you for your calling. Get ready to shift into the identity of a woman who knows everything is happening for her next level. Check out our Sponsors: SKIMS - I finally tried SKIMS and I get all the hype. Shop SKIMS Fits Everybody collection at SKIMS.com and let them know we sent you in the dropdown after checkout. Brevo - the all-in-one marketing and CRM platform designed to help you connect with customers and grow your business. Get started for free today - go to www.brevo.com/happy Blinds.com - Blinds.com makes it easy to get the designer look without the showroom markups. Get an exclusive $50 off when you spend $500 or more with code EARN at checkout. Shopify - Try the ecommerce platform I trust for Glōci, Sign up for your $1/month trial period at Shopify.com/happy Northwest Registered Agent - protect your privacy, build your brand and get your complete business identity in just 10 clicks and 10 minutes! Visit https://www.northwestregisteredagent.com/earnfree Headway - the #1 daily growth app that delivers key insights from the world’s best non fiction books in bite sized 15 minute reads and audio. Save 25% off when you go to  makeheadway.com/happy. HIGHLIGHTS The quote that completely reframed my understanding of trauma. How childhood isolation, judgment, and rejection built the resilience I rely on today. Why resistance, trolls, and misunderstandings are signs you're breaking patterns. Where you're unintentionally giving your power away in business and life. The “resistance training” mindset that changes how you approach every challenge. RESOURCES Try the new Glōci Glow & Debloat flavors HERE Apply for our Elite Entrepreneur Mastermind HERE Get on the waitlist for MCM Mastermind HERE Join the Audacity Challenge HERE! Join the most supportive mastermind on the internet HERE! Check out our FREE 90-Day Business Blueprint HERE! Listen to my free SECRET PODCASTS SERIES - Operation: Rekindle This B*tch Get glōci HERE Use code: HAPPY at checkout for 25% off! FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow glōci: @getgloci

I had a moment on a recent podcast interview that hit me straight in the soul. In this episode, I’m talking about the identity-shifting moments of my life, growing up isolated in a religion, getting bullied, facing constant rejection door-to-door, and later the public judgment that came with building a business. These are the exact moments I used to resent, and they’re now the ones I’m most grateful for. I’m breaking down how resistance, shame, judgment, and even the stuff you never tell anyone ends up becoming the exact training that equips you for your calling. Get ready to shift into the identity of a woman who knows everything is happening for her next level. Check out our Sponsors: SKIMS - I finally tried SKIMS and I get all the hype. Shop SKIMS Fits Everybody collection at SKIMS.com and let them know we sent you in the dropdown after checkout. Brevo - the all-in-one marketing and CRM platform designed to help you connect with customers and grow your business. Get started for free today - go to www.brevo.com/happy Blinds.com - Blinds.com makes it easy to get the designer look without the showroom markups. Get an exclusive $50 off when you spend $500 or more with code EARN at checkout. Shopify - Try the ecommerce platform I trust for Glōci, Sign up for your $1/month trial period at Shopify.com/happy Northwest Registered Agent - protect your privacy, build your brand and get your complete business identity in just 10 clicks and 10 minutes! Visit https://www.northwestregisteredagent.com/earnfree Headway - the #1 daily growth app that delivers key insights from the world’s best non fiction books in bite sized 15 minute reads and audio. Save 25% off when you go to  makeheadway.com/happy. HIGHLIGHTS The quote that completely reframed my understanding of trauma. How childhood isolation, judgment, and rejection built the resilience I rely on today. Why resistance, trolls, and misunderstandings are signs you're breaking patterns. Where you're unintentionally giving your power away in business and life. The “resistance training” mindset that changes how you approach every challenge. RESOURCES Try the new Glōci Glow & Debloat flavors HERE Apply for our Elite Entrepreneur Mastermind HERE Get on the waitlist for MCM Mastermind HERE Join the Audacity Challenge HERE! Join the most supportive mastermind on the internet HERE! Check out our FREE 90-Day Business Blueprint HERE! Listen to my free SECRET PODCASTS SERIES - Operation: Rekindle This B*tch Get glōci HERE Use code: HAPPY at checkout for 25% off! FOLLOW Follow me: @loriharder Follow glōci: @getgloci

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