Why Fatherhood Should Expand Your Purpose, Not Shrink It w/ Chris Avery

Send us Fan MailBecoming a father isn't the reason to stop chasing hard things…It's a the reason to dream bigger!In this episode, Oscar sits down with a fellow father, Chris Avery, preparing for an incredible challenge: running 31 miles every day for 365 days around the perimeter of America.But the real conversation goes deeper than the miles.This episode explores how fatherhood reshapes a man’s sense of purpose, why our kids are always watching what we pursue, and how doing hard things becomes one of the greatest gifts we can model for our daughters.A conversation about resilience, discipline, presence, and why your mission as a father should grow—not shrink—after kids. 🎧 Dad challenge:What’s one thing you stopped pursuing that your kids need to see you go after again?Chris on InstagramChris Runs AmericaDonate to the Run Around America00:00 Hardest Parts of Fatherhood01:03 Podcast Intro and Guest02:11 Chris Avery Background02:42 Sobriety and New Life03:58 Marriage and Kids04:55 CD Player Nostalgia05:35 Mortality After Kids08:03 Birth Trauma and NICU11:44 Being Present as Dads14:46 Bedtime Lessons Learned17:10 COVID Wake Up Call20:06 Slow Down and Find Joy25:23 Genius Brain Curiosity27:48 Slowing Down to Connect28:18 Puzzles as Presence Practice31:19 Time Is How Kids Feel Love32:41 One on One Moments33:52 The 50K Every Day Plan35:54 Pain Purpose and Perseverance41:59 Family in the Journey46:35 Race Not Pace Mindset48:01 Support Sponsors and Links51:24 Live for Your Family53:07 Closing Thanks and NewsletterGuest Disclaimer:The views and opinions expressed on this podcast are solely those of the guests. They do not necessarily reflect the views or opinions of the host, any organizations, companies, or institutions mentioned, or corporate entities represented by the host.Our aim is to provide a platform for diverse perspectives and open dialogue. While we strive for accuracy and balance, it's important to recognize that opinions may vary. We encourage critical thinking and further exploration of the topics discussed.Proudly Sponsored by Few Will HuntRestoring the dignity of hard work. 100%American-made. Everyone wants to eat. But only few will hunt Support the showCatch up w/ The Daughtered PodcastOscar on InstagramFew Will Hunt. 10% OFF use GIRLDADWant to be a guest on The DAUGHTERED Podcast? Want to collaborate? Send Oscar Pena a message on PodMatch, here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/daughteredpodcast