EPISODE · Jul 21, 2026 · 38 MIN
"Why Flirting Keeps Relationships Alive"
from Startup Spouses · host Intimacy Edge
Show Notes / Key Topics:Why flirting fades after the honeymoon phase and why couples "forget how to flirt"The link between stress/survival mode and loss of playfulnessResearch: Frisbee & Booth (2012) study on flirting, satisfaction, and commitment in 164 couplesThe Gottman Institute's concept of "bids for connection" and marriage outcome predictionsDebunking the myth that flirting only happens at the start of a relationshipHow to identify your personal flirting style (touch, humor, sensual, subtle/polite)Navigating misalignment when one partner is more flirtatious than the otherWhy flirting is a bridge between "safety" and "play" (SPARK framework)Practical homework: how to start flirting again this week, without pressure or expectationThe difference between spontaneous flirting (daily life) and structured relationship check-insCall to Action:Enjoyed this episode? Share it with your spouse or a friend, subscribe for more episodes, and download the free Connection Workbook (linked in show notes) for a weekly guide to deepening intimacy and connection with your partner.Suggested Tags/Keywords: flirting in marriage, relationship advice for couples, Gottman Institute bids for connection, marriage communication, intimacy coaching, business couples, keeping the spark alive, relationship maintenance, couples therapy podcast, SPARK frameworkhttps://www.startupspouses.co/free-workbook-download
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