Why Friendship First Makes Marriage Last (w/ Jenna and Dontay of Love & Fly S*** Podcast)

This week on CockTales Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah sit down with Jenna and Dontay, the married duo behind the Love and Fly Sh*t podcast. They open up about their 11-year marriage, raising kids, trust, sex, and how to keep love fresh when life gets real. From funny wedding memories to navigating parenting without family nearby, this conversation is raw, relatable, and full of wisdom for anyone curious about what makes relationships work long-term.Detailed Show Notes:Marriage, Partnership & Real Love LessonsTopics Covered:How Jenna & Dontay went from teenage crushes to married with two kidsWhat they believe are the “silent killers” of marriageWhy trust has to be earned but also given with graceThe role of sex and intimacy in keeping a relationship aliveTheir wild destination wedding + missing the flight to their honeymoonAdjusting to parenthood, postpartum struggles, and learning balanceWhy friendship and communication are the foundation of their marriageLessons for singles about what to look for in a lifelong partnerLinks Mentioned:💻 Join the Drinks & Reads Book Club on Patreon www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoJoin Me in Jamaica at Hedo with WORST BEHAVIOUR TOUR, Let them Know Kiki Sent You! www.worstbehaviortour.com📺 Kiki's new show: xoMAN Podcast is out now! Check it out here: https://lnk.to/6JdRUZJoin Medinah in Thailand for “The Lover Girl Layover” https://trovatrip.com/trip/asia/thailand/thailand-with-medinah-ali-aug-2026To Join The Cancer Walk or Make a donation: Cancer Walk InfoGo to brooklynbedding.com and use my promo code cocktales at checkout to get 30% off sitewide.  This offer is not available anywhere else.💉 LifeRx.md - Use code COCKTALES for $50 off LifeRX.MD - Start your health journey today with LifeRX and use code COCKTALES at checkout for $50 off.  LIFERX Use code COCKTALES- CLICK HERE https://liferx.md/?u1=188&_ef_transaction_id&oid=1&affid=188📲 Follow Us:  Instagram: @cocktalespodcast  Instagram: @kikisaidso Instagram: @coffeebeandeanGUESTS: @LOVEANDFLYSHT 🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesads Contact Us!Advice:  [email protected]: [email protected] S*x: [email protected]: [email protected] Request/ General Inquiries [email protected] your Vesper2 https://www.lovecrave.com/products/vesper2/?aop=cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game at www.imcurioustoknow.comGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's  Book Club:  www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoTravel With Medinah! Lover Girl Layover!Interested in sponsoring? Contact [email protected] todayChapters:00:00 – Intro & Cocktail of the Week: The Blushing Bride02:00 – Meet Jenna & Dontay of Love and Fly Sht Podcast*04:00 – Relationship games & defining cheating09:00 – Trust, honesty & grace in marriage13:00 – Destination wedding & honeymoon chaos17:00 – 11 years of marriage: what keeps it fresh27:00 – Do married people miss being single?31:00 – Kids, postpartum, and learning balance37:00 – Silent killers of marriage: communication, resentment & sex44:00 – Living together before marriage50:00 – Long engagements & playbook myths53:00 – How to choose the right partnerBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-dirty-discussions--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the hosts and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoMedinah MonroeInstagram: @coffeebeandeanTikTok: @medinahmonroeCockTales: Dirty Discussions PodcastInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on CockTales: Dirty Discussions?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form