Why Gen Z Language Isn’t “Bad English” with Valerie Fridland

If you’ve ever felt insecure about your voice, your accent, or the way you communicate, this episode is for you.Have you ever wondered why the new generations always text differently?Or why accents exist, or why people judge the way others talk, and how social media is transforming language in real time?In today’s episode of The SMARTA Podcast, I sit down with Valerie Fridland, professor of sociolinguistics and bestselling author of Why We Talk Funny, for one of the most fascinating conversations we’ve had about language, identity, accents, communication, and human connection.We also talk about Gen Z slang, the psychology of accents, identity, belonging, confidence, and the hidden science behind every conversation you have.Communication is far less about perfection… and far more about connection.What You’ll Learn:• Why every single person has an accent• The psychology behind why people judge speech patterns• How social media is changing language globally• Why communication is about connection, not perfection• How accents shape identity and belonging• Why Gen Z language is evolution — not “bad English”• The surprising science behind the way humans communicateValerie Fridland is a professor of sociolinguistics, researcher, speaker, and author of books including Like, Literally, Dude and Why We Talk Funny.Her work explores the relationship between language, identity, social behaviour, and communication — helping people better understand not just how we speak, but why we speak the way we do.You can find Valerie through her books, speaking engagements, and academic work in linguistics and communication.In this episode:00:00 – Welcome02:30 – Why We Judge The Way People Speak05:18 – What are accents?08:02 – Why Humans Notice Accents12:00 – Why Older Generations Criticise New Language15:50 – What Sociolinguistics Really Means20:04 – The Myth of “Bad English”26:46 – How Social Media Is Changing Language30:00 – Are Regional Accents Disappearing?31:34 – Should You Adapt Your Accent to Fit In?35:00 – Language, Identity & Perception39:48 – Why We’re Too Hard on Ourselves41:00 – Phones vs Real Human Connection43:00 – Valerie’s Definition of Success48:39 – Why Failure Shapes You More Than Success51:28 – Final Advice: Stop Sweating the Small StuffIf this episode made you think differently about communication, identity, or connection — share it with someone who needs to hear it.Subscribe to The SMARTA Podcast for conversations with world-class thinkers, authors, and experts.And next time you speak to someone:Look them in the eye.Ask a question.And remember, connection matters more than sounding perfect.