Why Guys Fix Everyone Else (But Don't Fix Themselves)

Yo Let's Get Real Community! In this segment from our live show, Shark and  Spanish dive deep into one of the hardest lessons for men to learn: you can’t fix your life until you’re willing to look inward.Spanish opens up about how his spiritual growth has led him to self-discipline — something he never thought he’d embrace — and how that shift helped him start unlocking patterns that were keeping him stuck. Shark builds on the idea by sharing a flow-state moment where he literally coached himself, stepping outside his own mind to see his habits and procrastination through a nonjudgmental lens.Together, they explore the real reason so many men feel “stuck” — because they’re trying to fix everyone else before they’ve done the hard work of fixing themselves. From masculine energy and drive to the deeper spiritual side of self-awareness, this conversation blends humor, heart, and raw truth about what it means to grow as a man.👉 Subscribe, comment, and share this episode with a brother who needs to hear it.💬 Call in during the next live show at 1-800-771-1025 — we’re here to talk about the real stuff.🕒 Timestamps00:00 — Spanish on spirituality and learning discipline00:37 — Sharkey: Why men stay stuck in self-improvement loops01:14 — Why fixers struggle to fix themselves01:33 — How focusing on others helps men avoid their own healing02:17 — Sharkey’s “flow state” breakthrough02:58 — Giving yourself permission to coach yourself03:22 — Seeing your own patterns and procrastination clearly03:40 — Spanish: “You tapped into the God version of yourself”04:15 — Sharkey’s birthday moment and call to the audience04:55 — Preview: Sharkey’s real-life story about taking his own advice🧩 Key TakeawaysMen often avoid their own inner work by focusing on fixing others.Spiritual growth requires discipline and timing — you can’t rush self-awareness.You can coach yourself when you step outside judgment and look at your own patterns.Flow states can open deep insight into your subconscious behaviors.Self-honesty is the foundation of true spiritual and emotional growth.#LetsGetRealRadioShow #MensMentalHealth #MensGrowth #SelfAwareness #SpiritualGrowth #MasculineEnergy #PersonalDevelopment #InnerWork #EmotionalHealth #FlowState #Procrastination #MindsetShift #MensSupport #HealingJourney #LifePurpose #SelfDiscipline #SelfCoaching #ModernMan #MensTalk #Authenticity #UnlockYourself #ConsciousLiving #GrowthMindset #EmotionalIntelligence #TampaBay #StPete ❤️ Follow Let's Get Real everywhere!🔔 SUBSCRIBE to Let's Get Real for Updates and Surprises✅ Instagram:  @soul_spanish✅ Instagram:  @iammichaelsharkey✅ TikTok:  @iammichaelsharkey"Let's Get Real" is a weekly, interactive live talk show for guys on 102.5 FM in Tampa Bay. The show is live Friday nights at 8p ETIf you'd like to listen to the show live, stream at www.theboneonline.com or on your favorite live streaming radio app, like iHeartRadio or Audacy.We also post unique segments from every show on our YouTube channel. Click here to subscribe and get new content!To join the Lets Get Real community for exclusive content, click this link, enter your name and email and you're in!Please give us a 5-star rating and a written review to help others discover this show! And tell a friend to tell a friend about Let's Get Real!Thanks for listening!