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EPISODE · Jul 3, 2026 · 21 MIN

Why Her Feedback Shuts You Down | Ep 62

from Create More Intimacy: A Podcast for Men · host Alisa Stoddard

Most men handle hard feedback at work without much trouble. But when their wife says something critical, a wall goes up almost instantly. This episode is about why that happens, what it costs, and what it quietly communicates to her over time. We cover: Why her feedback feels like an attack even when it isn't What she is actually saying underneath the surface complaint How the defensive reflex trains her to stop being honest The difference between being a partner and being a soft place to land What it actually looks like to receive feedback without shutting down If you have ever walked away from a hard conversation feeling unfairly criticized while she walked away feeling more alone, this episode is for you. Join me for “What She Stopped Saying” - a free 30-minute webinar on July 8th.Register at Live Webinar | Open Call Registration 🎧 Listen to all episodes at https://alisastoddard.com/podcast 💬 Want help figuring this out in your own relationship? Access my free Intimacy Training: https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/opt-in Book a Relationship Clarity Call: https://alisa-stoddard.mykajabi.com/podcast-scheduling-page Available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube. Find out more at https://alisastoddard.com/  

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