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EPISODE · Jul 29, 2026 · 32 MIN

Why High-Functioning People Get Stuck in Relationships with Covert Narcissists | Epi 170

from The Narcissism Decoder · host Dr. Anthony Mazzella

In the first part of my conversation with Dr. Melissa Kalt, we explore why covert narcissism is so difficult to recognize and why high-functioning, thoughtful, and growth-oriented individuals can become especially vulnerable to these relationships. We look beyond narcissism itself and examine the psychological fit that can develop between two people—how strengths like self-reflection, responsibility, and a commitment to growth can gradually become woven into a complex dynamic that leaves someone working harder and harder for connection, understanding, and change. If this resonates with you, this is a conversation you won't want to miss.To learn more about Dr. Melissa's work, visit melissakaltmd.com and linktr.ee/melissakaltmd.If you are interested in a consultation or seeking virtual therapy services, Dr. Mazzella is accepting new patients. Please click here for more detailed information.  Contact me Directly with observations, questions or comments:  [email protected] You can follow The Narcissism Decoder on: https://www.instagram.com/thenarcissism.decoder/ https://www.tiktok.com/@thenarcissismdecoder https://www.youtube.com/@thenarcissismdecoder  Dr. Mazzella’s personal website: drmazzella.comDr. Anthony Mazzella is a psychoanalyst and psychodynamic psychotherapist specializing in narcissism, personality disorders, and relational dynamics.

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