Why "I Can't" Might Be the Most Respectful Thing You Can Say

In this episode, Lucy shares the story of a real estate deal that almost fell apart — and how saying "I can't" to her husband changed everything. It's a cheat phrase straight out of vulnerability skill, and it's a lot harder to say than it sounds when you're used to holding everything together yourself.Then Lucy sits down with her guest Chloe to talk about:The moment she realized she'd built a "works-based marriage" — trying to earn her husband's love through doing, not receivingWhat "helper" actually means in Genesis, and why it's not what most Christian women think it isHow the cheat phrase "whatever you think" changed the way she experiences her husband's leadership The before-and-after of long, silent car rides vs. karaoke duetsMentioned in this episode:Philippians 4:8Ephesians 5-6Connect with Lucy:Email Lucy at [email protected] to schedule a free consultation.