Why I Keep Taking My Nonverbal Son Places He May Not Care About

Does my son care that I took him back to the town where I grew up? Maybe not. But that's not really the point.This week, I talk about taking my 15-year-old nonverbal son, Lucas, back to Lindenhurst and sharing places with him that meant something to me growing up, even if I'm not sure how much those places mean to him.I also look back at all the outings we've tried over the years. Bowling alleys, petting zoos, sensory play spaces, the pool, and plenty of places he wanted absolutely nothing to do with. Some were disasters. Some eventually became things he loved.That's part of why I keep trying.Raising a son with autism has taught me that I can't judge an experience by the reaction I get from him. I don't need a thank you, a huge smile, or proof that every outing "worked." Sometimes I'm sharing something I love with someone I love. Other times I'm giving him a chance to discover something he might eventually love too.And sometimes showing up and trying again is the whole point.It's Here! Get the book – “Hi World, I’m Dad: How Fathers Can Journey to Autism Awareness, Acceptance, and Appreciation” on audio, digital, or print.Follow Us On TikTok, Instagram, Facebook, and YouTube. Also, be sure to read the blog that started it all - Hi Blog! I'm Dad.