Why I STOPPED Being The "Nice Girl"... (Stop Being PUSHED AROUND) | Lisa Bilyeu

There is something called the nice girl syndrome which is an idea and expectation that you have to be nice to be loved and accepted. It leaves the mark of not feeling good enough. Being pleasant, agreeable, and accommodating doesn’t mean that you have to make yourself less than someone else.“Becoming and remaining a nice girl, is a kind of malnutrition to the soul of a woman.” -Asia SulerWhat happens to you when you’re always put last on your own list or lucky if you even make your own list? In this episode Lisa is channeling all of her badass energy into exposing how you can be nice and prioritize yourself and communicate your needs. You don’t have to be afraid of speaking up and worried about being rejected or thought less than by the right people in your life.Do a gut check with yourself on which one of these myths hit the hardest and come up with a plan to restore your power and balance where there is none.Women of Impact is sponsored by Growthday Network: https://growthday.com/podcastsSHOW NOTES:0:00 | Introduction to Nice Girl Myths0:12 | #1 Nice Girls Aren’t Needy8:15 | #2 Nice Girls Listen to Their Parents21:12 | #3 Nice Girls Aren’t Rude25:14 | #4 Nice Girls Don’t Push Back31:02 | #5 Nice Girls Don’t Swear31:16 | #6 Nice Girls Don’t Rattle Cages39:12 | #7 Nice Girls Are Not Confrontational47:11 | #8 Nice Girls Take Their Friends’ Advice52:05 | #9 Nice Girls Don’t Show Their Emotions1:02:46 | #10 Nice Girls Don’t Disagree1:16:45 | 5 Biggest Myths About LoveFollow Lisa Bilyeu:Website: https://www.radicalconfidence.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeuTwitter: https://twitter.com/lisabilyeuAre You Ready for EXTRA Impact?Calling all Badasses!! If you really want to level up your confidence game, check out the WOMEN OF IMPACT SUBSCRIPTION, specially designed to turn you into the badass you were born to be! Women of EXTRA Impact Subscription Benefits: New episodes delivered ad-free Exclusive access to listen to Women of Impact round table discussions, weekly motivation, previously unreleased episodes, and more!  Subscriber-only access to an additional 4 podcasts with hundreds of archived Women of Impact episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists, and updated weekly. Looking to boost your confidence? Check out the Get Confident playlist.  Want to repair and heal your relationships? Start with Love Lab.  Curious about your health? We’ve got you covered in Health Hub.  And of course, weekly boosts of mini-motivation from Lisa herself that'll have you strutting through life with your head held high on the Badass Boosts playlist  Don't settle for mediocrity when you can be extraordinary!Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/457ebrPSubscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.