Why Intimacy Feels Heavy Instead of Holy | HLW Valentine's Day Series: Episode 1

Send us Fan MailSurrender feels hard for many wives—not because they’re unwilling, but because they’ve been taught to approach it as something to do instead of something that flows from the heart.In this opening episode of our daily February series leading up to Valentine’s Day, Chelsey reframes surrender through a biblical lens and reveals why striving, confusion, and exhaustion often show up when heart posture and order are off.This episode is not about fixing your marriage or modifying your behavior. It’s about returning to a right view of God, a right view of yourself, and allowing surrender to emerge naturally from gratitude and trust—rather than effort.If surrender has felt heavy, unclear, or out of reach, this episode will help you see why—and gently invite you back to the starting place.This is the foundation for the next 18 days. Support the showChelsey Holm | the Wife Coach "I lead Christian wives  to become TENDER, TENACIOUS & TAKING BACK TERRITORY the enemy has stolen. To live by God’s design in marriage through right order, repentance & radical obedience.First step? Grab the 30 Day Guide: War Room RESET: daily action to regulate, realign, and reconnect. 👉🏼 Access FREE guide here. Optional $10 add on for action pack for faster implementation.Ready for a next step? If this episode stirred something deeper and you’re ready to move from insight into surrender, I created a short guided experience called From Awareness to Surrender.👉 Access From Awareness to Surrender here: ACCESS Looking for ongoing support? Inside High Level Wife, we continue this work together through Spirit-led teaching, posture work, nervous system safety, and daily surrender lived out over time.👉 Learn more about High Level Wife here: Get the Blueprint + learn more about HLWAs a mom of 5, I fuel my best daily to feel my best, stewarding this temple well. Grab my daily (13+ years) STACK. 2x certified Coach (...