Why Intimacy Feels SO Good With the WRONG People – Shan Boodram

Why do we sometimes get ghosted or friend-zoned after intimacy? How can we navigate mismatched libidos, steer clear of toxic intimacy with the wrong people, or keep the spark alive in long-term relationships? In this episode, Matthew and Audrey sit down with Shan Boodram, a certified sex educator and relationship expert with an M.S. in psychology, for a candid conversation about sex, intimacy, and the unspoken dynamics that shape our love lives.  Topics covered: • Why sex doesn’t always lead to commitment.• How to confidently communicate your boundaries and desires.• The psychology behind mismatched libidos and how to address them.• Why toxic relationships can feel so good (and how to break the cycle).• Tips for reigniting passion in long-term relationships. ---►► Don’t sweat summer nights. Cozy Earth’s ultra-soft, cooling sheets turn summer sleep into pure comfort. Get 40% off with code LOVELIFE at cozyearth.com  ►► Access Shan Boodram’s resources (including the free quiz she mentioned in this episode): loversbyshan.com  ►► Try Matthew AI (and ask any relationship question for free): AskMH.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.