EPISODE · Dec 4, 2025 · 5 MIN
Why Is It Always a Black Man in the Comments?
from Women Who Don't Apologise · host Patricia Haywood
A voice note about something too many Black women recognise but rarely say out loud:why the loudest attempts to shrink us online often come from the very men we expect solidarity from.In this episode, I talk through the sting, the confusion, the cultural layers, and the quiet grief behind those moments and why it still shocks me every time.This isn’t a drag, it’s a reflection.A wish for better.A reminder that we deserve to be seen, supported, and uplifted by our own… not policed or put back in a box.If you’ve ever felt this dynamic in your body, this one’s for you.
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A voice note about something too many Black women recognise but rarely say out loud:why the loudest attempts to shrink us online often come from the very men we expect solidarity from.In this episode, I talk through the sting, the confusion, the cultural layers, and the quiet grief behind those moments and why it still shocks me every time.This isn’t a drag, it’s a reflection.A wish for better.A reminder that we deserve to be seen, supported, and uplifted by our own… not policed or put back in a box.If you’ve ever felt this dynamic in your body, this one’s for you.
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