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EPISODE · Feb 13, 2025 · 13 MIN

Why Is She Always Upset? Why Is He Always Defensive? The Hidden Struggles in Marriage

from Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher · host Maurice Harker

Ever feel like your wife is always upset—even when you’re trying? Or do you feel like your husband gets defensive the second you bring something up? You’re not alone.In this episode of Memoirs of an LDS Servant Teacher, we break down the real reasons behind these recurring conflicts and why they’re not just about communication.✔️ Why her sense of safety and his sense of competency are constantly at odds✔️ Why men feel attacked when they’re just trying to do their best✔️ How women constantly analyze their environment for danger (and why men don’t get it)✔️ How Satan twists small moments to create unnecessary fights✔️ Why "situational empathy" is the key to fixing everything✔️ How to observe instead of argue—and what that changes in marriageIf you’re tired of the same fights, exhausted from trying to explain yourself, or feeling like your spouse will never "get it"—this episode will give you clarity, hope, and real solutions.Want to read more about this topic? ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/protecting-against-pornography-and-harnessing-the-power-of-christ/Rather Watch Something? ⁠https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4g6TykyVHyQ&t=2sCheck out the Marriage Repair Workshops: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.lifechangingservices.org/marriage-repair/⁠

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