Why Love Feels Unsafe | The Right Therapist

In this episode of The Right Therapist, couples counsellor Gillian Fernandes explores why relationships so often feel unsafe, confusing, or lonely — even when there is love present. Drawing on attachment theory, somatic therapy, and systems thinking, Gillian explains how couples often get stuck not because of communication skills, but because of unspoken attachment needs, nervous system responses, and unresolved relational history.