Why Maintenance Sex Will Ruin Your Marriage

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Are marriage therapists wrong about maintenance sex? In this video, I expose the dangers of treating sex like a chore in long-term relationships and marriages. Maintenance sex may initially seem like a solution, but it often leads to resentment, obligation, and even a decline in genuine attraction. I discuss the difference between obligation sex and validation sex, referencing real examples and insights from the Red Pill Archive. Join me as I explain how building real attraction—not coercion—leads to long-lasting intimacy and connection. 👉 Want me to help you to get your wife to enthusiastically want to bang you again? Book a call: http://call.fixdeadbedrooms.com VIDEOS TO WATCH NEXT: Watch this playlist to master dating and relationships by understanding women better: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPvrPL5WEPiNDb6c9KPjfKQX&si=p0BOV6ihPx0TgzdV Watch this playlist to help reprogram your mindset and unlock the path to success: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPvsVyEG3fXWInuRxyfwJfIB&si=Z4CKj1-_FxgOOJ1k Watch this playlist to develop an unshakable frame and take control of your life: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLEXcvFDdRqPvgN8idHfGfOp3gA8Y0tMxT&si=NccZ6koKYz3hSuUz -------------------------------------------- BOOKS THAT WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE ➡️ Want to learn the life lessons I wish I knew when I was 18? Click here to get started: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNLGCH17 ➡️ Want to master your mindset and build an unshakable masculine presence? Click here now: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CNLGCH17 -------------------------------------------- WHY YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS FAILING ➡️ Is she slowly turning you into a beta? Discover the 5 stages of the betatization process and how to regain your strength. Click here to learn more: http://list.comeonmanpod.com -------------------------------------------- FOLLOW ME Follow on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@comeonmanpod Follow on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/comeonmanpodcast/ Follow on Twitter - https://twitter.com/ComeOnManPOD Follow on Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/comeonmanpodcast -------------------------------------------- COMMUNITIES ➡️ Join My Exclusive Telegram Community: http://beer.comeonmanpod.com ➡️ Become a Spotify Subscriber: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/comeonman/subscribe -------------------------------------------- "Why doesn’t my wife want sex?" "Is maintenance sex good for marriage?" "How to build attraction in marriage" "Signs my wife doesn’t enjoy sex" "Why sex feels like a chore for her" "How to fix a sexless marriage" "Difference between obligation sex and desire" "Red Pill advice on marriage" "How to get my wife to want me" "Sex and resentment in marriage"

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Are marriage therapists wrong about maintenance sex? In this video, I expose the dangers of treating sex like a chore in long-term relationships and marriages. Maintenance sex may initially seem like a solution, but it often leads to resentment,...

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