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EPISODE · Feb 27, 2026 · 1H 2M

Why Men Win At Work But Lose At Home (+ How To Win At Both)

from The Family Captain · host John Michael Clark

We talk to a lot of men who are crushing it at work, but drifting at home.On one hand, it makes sense...work and home are different beasts, and there's a lot of focus put on professional success in this culture.On the other hand, it makes no sense...why do these high-performing dudes struggle where it matters most?That's what we're diving into today.We'll cover the root causes of this issue and give you specific things to work on to start building that capital at home so that you start to love leading your family with strength and love instead of shift into autopilot when you walk through the door.---👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠ ---In This Episode:0:00 Intro3:15 Do these 3 questions prove every guy is the same?10:53 Why you crush at work but drift at home17:50 Lack of vision19:46 What you're missing at home27:36 Why a man tolerates drift at home31:28 The mindset shift required to win at home40:38 Order to chaos50:21 Glory and credit at work56:12 Audit your capital---👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/--- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptainWebsite: https://thefamilycaptain.com/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain--- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

We talk to a lot of men who are crushing it at work, but drifting at home.On one hand, it makes sense...work and home are different beasts, and there's a lot of focus put on professional success in this culture.On the other hand, it makes no sense...why do these high-performing dudes struggle where it matters most?That's what we're diving into today.We'll cover the root causes of this issue and give you specific things to work on to start building that capital at home so that you start to love leading your family with strength and love instead of shift into autopilot when you walk through the door.---👉 Join Our Free FB Group on Family Leadership & Sex in Marriage: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/thefamilycaptain⁠ ---In This Episode:0:00 Intro3:15 Do these 3 questions prove every guy is the same?10:53 Why you crush at work but drift at home17:50 Lack of vision19:46 What you're missing at home27:36 Why a man tolerates drift at home31:28 The mindset shift required to win at home40:38 Order to chaos50:21 Glory and credit at work56:12 Audit your capital---👉 Want John Michael To Personally Help You Become The Best Man Your Wife And Kids Have Ever Known? Book A Free Assessment Call Here: https://thefamilycaptain.com/coaching/--- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheFamilyCaptain/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_family_captain/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thefamilycaptainWebsite: https://thefamilycaptain.com/Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@familycaptain--- Nobody tells men that our lives will shift into autopilot without us noticing. They didn’t warn us that our marriage would drift into average instead of amazing. But Christians should have the best marriages and the best sex lives. The Family Captain will show you how.

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