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EPISODE · May 18, 2026 · 46 MIN

Why Modern Life Is Terrified Of Death | Ben Yalom

from The Midlife Chrysalis · host Chip Conley

What do you do when the version of yourself you built for decades no longer fits your life?In this conversation, Chip sits down with therapist and former theater director Ben Yalom for a warm, honest discussion about reinvention, grief, aging, identity, and the courage it takes to change direction in midlife.After spending years in experimental theater, Ben found himself at a crossroads during COVID. What followed was an unexpected transition into psychotherapy, where he now combines storytelling, movement, curiosity, and emotional exploration in deeply human ways.In this episode, they talk about:Letting go of old identities without losing yourselfWhy mistakes often become our greatest source of wisdomThe hidden emotional intelligence of the bodyWhy modern culture struggles so much with death and agingHow curiosity keeps us alive and growing through changeIt’s one of those conversations that stays with you long after it ends.Listen now if you’re navigating change, rethinking your path, or wondering who you’re becoming next.Timestamps:(03:39) Leaving Theater Behind for Therapy(06:15) COVID Forced a Major Life Shift(08:00) Growing Up as Irving Yalom’s Son(12:43) Letting Go of Old Identities(15:41) Your Body Knows Your Story(18:56) Life as a Creative Practice(21:25) Writing Hour of the Heart(26:13) Aging Parents and Facing Mortality(30:44) Writing Life as a Fairy Tale(33:04) Why Modern Culture Fears Death(35:44) Ben Yalom on Grief and Loss(36:58) What the Body Knows Beyond Words(41:16) Wisdom Bumper StickerLearn more about MEA at ⁠https://www.meawisdom.com/#BenYalom #MidlifeReinvention #ExistentialTherapy #SomaticTherapy #BodyMindConnection #FearOfDeath #PersonalTransformation #Psychotherapy #EmotionalHealing #MidlifeCrisis #LifeTransitions #Curiosity #Aging #MentalHealth #Mortality

What do you do when the version of yourself you built for decades no longer fits your life?In this conversation, Chip sits down with therapist and former theater director Ben Yalom for a warm, honest discussion about reinvention, grief, aging, identity, and the courage it takes to change direction in midlife.After spending years in experimental theater, Ben found himself at a crossroads during COVID. What followed was an unexpected transition into psychotherapy, where he now combines storytelling, movement, curiosity, and emotional exploration in deeply human ways.In this episode, they talk about:Letting go of old identities without losing yourselfWhy mistakes often become our greatest source of wisdomThe hidden emotional intelligence of the bodyWhy modern culture struggles so much with death and agingHow curiosity keeps us alive and growing through changeIt’s one of those conversations that stays with you long after it ends.Listen now if you’re navigating change, rethinking your path, or wondering who you’re becoming next.Timestamps:(03:39) Leaving Theater Behind for Therapy(06:15) COVID Forced a Major Life Shift(08:00) Growing Up as Irving Yalom’s Son(12:43) Letting Go of Old Identities(15:41) Your Body Knows Your Story(18:56) Life as a Creative Practice(21:25) Writing Hour of the Heart(26:13) Aging Parents and Facing Mortality(30:44) Writing Life as a Fairy Tale(33:04) Why Modern Culture Fears Death(35:44) Ben Yalom on Grief and Loss(36:58) What the Body Knows Beyond Words(41:16) Wisdom Bumper StickerLearn more about MEA at ⁠https://www.meawisdom.com/#BenYalom #MidlifeReinvention #ExistentialTherapy #SomaticTherapy #BodyMindConnection #FearOfDeath #PersonalTransformation #Psychotherapy #EmotionalHealing #MidlifeCrisis #LifeTransitions #Curiosity #Aging #MentalHealth #Mortality

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