Why Most ‘Coaching’ Isn’t Actually Coaching

An episode of the Destroy The Hairdresser podcast, hosted by Destroy The Hairdresser, titled "Why Most ‘Coaching’ Isn’t Actually Coaching" was published on March 19, 2026 and runs 25 minutes.

March 19, 2026 ·25m · Destroy The Hairdresser

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Summary

This episode starts unhinged (as usual) but quickly turns into one of the most important conversations we’ve had about coaching, business, and what actually changes people’s lives.We break down how we got into coaching, from early mentorship and life-altering experiences to launching Destroy The Hairdresser and building something that actually works. Not a step-by-step system. Not a cookie-cutter program. But real coaching that looks at the whole human.We talk about:Why certifications don’t mean what you think they doThe difference between a coach and a consultant (and why most programs are just giving you homework)How your personal life directly affects your business (yes… all of it)Why lineage, mentorship, and being coached yourself actually mattersAnd how we built a coaching company that’s about transformation—not just tacticsIf you’ve ever wondered what makes someone qualified to coach… or why some programs just don’t hit… this is the conversation.If you’re tired of trying to figure this out alone, this is your room.The Hairdresser Business Club is where salon owners and stylists come every week to talk about the real stuff:→ Pricing→ Hiring→ Marketing→ Leadership→ ProfitAnd unlike most programs… you don’t just get a course.You get access to us.We’re inside the club, answering questions, coaching, teaching, and helping you actually apply this to your life and business in real time.No gatekeeping. No “you can’t afford us so you don’t get us” energy.Just real support.👉 Join here: https://www.destroythehairdresser.com/the-hairdresser-business-clubTry it out, come hang with us, and see what happens when you stop building your business alone.

Episode Description

This episode starts unhinged (as usual) but quickly turns into one of the most important conversations we’ve had about coaching, business, and what actually changes people’s lives.

We break down how we got into coaching, from early mentorship and life-altering experiences to launching Destroy The Hairdresser and building something that actually works. Not a step-by-step system. Not a cookie-cutter program. But real coaching that looks at the whole human.

We talk about:

Why certifications don’t mean what you think they do
The difference between a coach and a consultant (and why most programs are just giving you homework)
How your personal life directly affects your business (yes… all of it)
Why lineage, mentorship, and being coached yourself actually matters
And how we built a coaching company that’s about transformation—not just tactics

If you’ve ever wondered what makes someone qualified to coach… or why some programs just don’t hit… this is the conversation.

If you’re tired of trying to figure this out alone, this is your room.

The Hairdresser Business Club is where salon owners and stylists come every week to talk about the real stuff:

→ Pricing
→ Hiring
→ Marketing
→ Leadership
→ Profit

And unlike most programs… you don’t just get a course.

You get access to us.

We’re inside the club, answering questions, coaching, teaching, and helping you actually apply this to your life and business in real time.

No gatekeeping. No “you can’t afford us so you don’t get us” energy.

Just real support.

👉 Join here: https://www.destroythehairdresser.com/the-hairdresser-business-club

Try it out, come hang with us, and see what happens when you stop building your business alone.