Why Passion Fades in Long-Term Relationships (and How to Get It Back)

Why does passion fade in long-term relationships — and how can we bring it back? 💫In this episode of the Sexy Business Podcast, we sit down with sex & couple therapist Ana Derada to talk openly about intimacy, desire, and communication in relationships. From the myths around orgasms and the clitoris, to the challenges of sex after kids, stress, and routine, we explore what it really takes to keep passion alive.You’ll learn:- Why patience and safety are the foundation of good sex 💕- How to talk about sex without shame or fear- The truth about female and male libido- What most people get wrong about orgasms- How to revive intimacy when passion fadesWhether you’re in a long-term relationship or just want to better understand sex and intimacy, this episode is full of real talk and practical tips from an experienced therapist.✨ Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share your thoughts in the comments!00:00 – IntroHosts welcome Ana Dorada, sex & couple therapist.00:01 – Patience & sex talkJoke about patience = good in bed.Why patience matters in intimacy.00:02 – Losing passion in long-term relationshipsKarolina shares struggles with sex after kids.Listener question: partner losing desire.00:04 – Safety & communicationPleasure starts in the brain.Safety, openness, and patience as foundations.00:07 – Stress & libidoMental load, parenting, and toxic masculinity affect desire.00:09 – Beyond stereotypesMasculine/feminine energy in both men & women.Sex as creative energy.00:13 – Partners & experienceQuality of partner or number of partners more important.Boundaries and kindness in intimacy.00:18 – Orgasms & mythsAll orgasms come from the clitoris.Only ~20% orgasm from penetration.Shame and porn stereotypes.00:29 – After childbirthPressure to resume sex too early.Importance of intimacy, not just sex.00:33 – Education & next generationEarly sex ed helps reduce stigma.Kids today more informed and empathetic.00:36 – Final thoughtsIntimacy = safe, sacred space.Invitation for listener questions.