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EPISODE · Jun 26, 2025 · 44 MIN

Why People Cheat: 10 Excuses Cheaters Make And Why They're All LIES!

from The ANTD Podcast · host D. Widders

Cheating doesn’t start with the act — it starts with a lie. In this episode, Amee and D. expose the 10 excuses cheaters use to justify betrayal, break down the truth behind each one, and share their raw journey of healing, forgiveness, and redemption after infidelity. Whether you’ve been cheated on or you’re trying to understand why people cheat, this episode will give you clarity, hope, and the steps to heal.👇 RESOURCES MENTIONED 👇📘 Healing After Betrayal: 6-Week Course → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-courses🧠 Book 1-on-1 Coaching with Amee & D → https://shopantd.com/collections/coaching🎁 Use code “41” for D's birthday discount on all coaching calls!🛍 Get the limited edition “Seinfield” Shirt → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-coffee-mugs📖 The ANTD Complete PDF Pack – All 7 Healing Guides → https://shopantd.com/products/7-antd-complete-healing-pdf-bundle-pack-all-7-of-our-pdf-guides-for-recovery-restoratio🎥 Amee is Live Daily on TikTok for Support and Q&Ahttps://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply📸 Follow Us on Instagramhttps://www.instagram.com/antdsply/🎧 Listen on Apple and SpotifyApple → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd-podcast/id1759101149Spotify → https://open.spotify.com/show/2G2NNCz9zXj82hv5ffrud8?si=NKfranEURb6XXF-IqrAJlA⏱️ TIMESTAMPS00:00 – Intro: “Cheating Starts With a Lie”00:52 – The First Excuse: “I wasn’t getting what I needed at home”04:20 – “This is just what men do”07:15 – The lie of “It just happened”09:55 – “I didn’t mean to hurt you”14:50 – Sex addiction, porn, and spiritual warfare17:30 – “I was going through a lot emotionally”20:10 – “I didn’t think I’d get caught”22:45 – Jezebel spirit and public backlash25:50 – “They tempted me”27:00 – “I didn’t feel loved or appreciated”29:45 – “We were on a break”31:20 – D’s confession during Amee’s pregnancy33:55 – “I thought it was already over”36:10 – What cheating really costs your soul38:00 – Redemption, restoration, and how God used the pain44:00 – Closing encouragement + how to heal with God

Cheating doesn’t start with the act — it starts with a lie. In this episode, Amee and D. expose the 10 excuses cheaters use to justify betrayal, break down the truth behind each one, and share their raw journey of healing, forgiveness, and redemption after infidelity. Whether you’ve been cheated on or you’re trying to understand why people cheat, this episode will give you clarity, hope, and the steps to heal. 👇 RESOURCES MENTIONED 👇 📘 Healing After Betrayal: 6-Week Course → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-courses 🧠 Book 1-on-1 Coaching with Amee & D → https://shopantd.com/collections/coaching 🎁 Use code “41” for D's birthday discount on all coaching calls! 🛍 Get the limited edition “Seinfield” Shirt → https://shopantd.com/collections/antd-coffee-mugs 📖 The ANTD Complete PDF Pack – All 7 Healing Guides → https://shopantd.com/products/7-antd-complete-healing-pdf-bundle-pack-all-7-of-our-pdf-guides-for-recovery-restoratio 🎥 Amee is Live Daily on TikTok for Support and Q&A https://www.tiktok.com/@antdsply 📸 Follow Us on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/antdsply/ 🎧 Listen on Apple Apple → https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-antd-podcast/id1759101149 ⏱️ TIMESTAMPS 00:00 – Intro: “Cheating Starts With a Lie” 00:52 – The First Excuse: “I wasn’t getting what I needed at home” 04:20 – “This is just what men do” 07:15 – The lie of “It just happened” 09:55 – “I didn’t mean to hurt you” 14:50 – Sex addiction, porn, and spiritual warfare 17:30 – “I was going through a lot emotionally” 20:10 – “I didn’t think I’d get caught” 22:45 – Jezebel spirit and public backlash 25:50 – “They tempted me” 27:00 – “I didn’t feel loved or appreciated” 29:45 – “We were on a break” 31:20 – D’s confession during Amee’s pregnancy 33:55 – “I thought it was already over” 36:10 – What cheating really costs your soul 38:00 – Redemption, restoration, and how God used the pain 44:00 – Closing encouragement + how to heal with God

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