Why Sex is Not an Act but a Conversation with Geordoni McKoy

In this episode, I am in conversation with life coach Geordoni McKoy whose mission in life is about providing people with more clarity, confidence and alignment. Geordoni and I go deep into what is usually left unspoken, shifting from seeing sex as an act to a conversation. Sex is fundamental to the human experience and yet it can lead to so many hang ups, suffering, and constraint. When you think about what makes for effective communication, how often do you include sexual communication as a critical life skill for experiencing freedom from constraint? You will hear about how Geordoni went from, in her words, 'Sexual Prude in her 20's to Sexual breakthrough in her 40's'. We discuss: - what impacts the quality of sex that we have - the state of suffering - where you are afraid to express what you want sexually - fear of acceptance and judgment - why withholding sex is not the answer - the importance of asking ourselves and our partners questions around sex - how to create the space to move through sexual blocks - how to help someone shift from sexual trauma to pleasure - and what your inner child has to do with the extent to which you experience freedom of sexual self expression I also share about the hangs ups I used to have around sex being bisexual, and how I broke past this. The episode was inspired by a bold post on social media where Geordoni first expressed this liberation. You can read the original post here: https://www.facebook.com/geordoni.mckoy/posts/10222738888116727   Follow Geordoni McKoy: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/geordoni.mckoy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachdoni1/ Host of Boldly Lit & On Fire: https://shows.acast.com/boldly-lit-on-fire/episodes/how-i-went-from-being-a-prude-to-having-a-sexual-breakthroug Follow Host: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thephilosophicalcoach Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thephilosophicalcoach/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/thephilosophicalcoach/ About Host: Sam Kukathas, is the Owner and Founder of The Philosophical Coach. The Philosophical Coach exists for people to live lives that are not just okay, but magic. If you want to learn more or hear what others have said about working with Sam then go to: thephilosophicalcoach.com