EPISODE · Aug 29, 2025 · 7 MIN
Why So Many Men Are Secretly Controlled by Shame (Especially Around Sex)
from Dad Starting Over · host Dad Starting Over
Most men carry shame. But they don’t talk about it—especially when it comes to sex.They were raised to be "good boys," "nice guys," and "respectful partners"... but underneath that, many are dealing with something toxic: sexual shame. It wrecks their confidence. It kills their desire. And it silently poisons their relationships.In this video, I break down how sexual shame develops in men, how it fuels codependency and dead bedrooms, and what it takes to finally own who you are as a man—without guilt, without apology.👉 If this hits home, join hundreds of other men doing the work inside the HFM Brotherhood: https://helpformen.com/join📚 Recommended books mentioned:No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert GloverFacing Codependence by Pia MellodyHealing the Shame That Binds You by John Bradshaw
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Most men carry shame. But they don’t talk about it—especially when it comes to sex.They were raised to be "good boys," "nice guys," and "respectful partners"... but underneath that, many are dealing with something toxic: sexual shame. It wrecks their confidence. It kills their desire. And it silently poisons their relationships.In this video, I break down how sexual shame develops in men, how it fuels codependency and dead bedrooms, and what it takes to finally own who you are as a man—without guilt, without apology.👉 If this hits home, join hundreds of other men doing the work inside the HFM Brotherhood: https://helpformen.com/join📚 Recommended books mentioned:No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert GloverFacing Codependence by Pia MellodyHealing the Shame That Binds You by John Bradshaw
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