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EPISODE · Jun 19, 2026 · 52 MIN

Why So Many of Us Feel Like We Don't Belong | Pádraig Ó Tuama

from The Midlife Chrysalis · host Chip Conley

What does it mean to belong, to yourself, to others, and to a life that's constantly changing?In this powerful conversation, Chip Conley sits down with Irish poet, theologian, and conflict mediator Padraig O Tuama to explore belonging, grief, identity, faith, and the wisdom that comes with midlife.You'll learn:Why belonging isn't always what we think it isHow poetry helps us navigate loss and uncertaintyPadraig's journey through religion, sexuality, and reparative therapyWhat turning 40 taught him about mortality and meaningWhy love may be life's most important practiceFilled with beautiful poetry, profound insights, and heartfelt stories, this episode is a reminder that even in life's most difficult seasons, you belong here.Watch now and let us know: What line or insight stayed with you most?Timestamps:(02:30) Poetry as Cultural Memory(05:19) The Purpose of Poetry(06:41) When Is a Poem Finished?(07:33) Becoming a Poet(10:13) Faith, Sexuality, and Identity(12:37) Exorcisms and Reparative Therapy(19:16) Belonging and Conflict(22:47) How to Be Alone(25:12) Grief, Breathing, and Death(30:16) Sleeping in His Mother's Bed(33:19) Midlife and the Shock of Turning 40(36:42) Birthday Prayer(39:32) Midlife Awakening and Change(41:36) The Facts of Life(45:11) Love, Death, and Wisdom(47:02) Desire, Lack, and Meaning(48:13) Final Reflections and ClosingLearn more about MEA at ⁠https://www.meawisdom.com/#Belonging #Authenticity #Midlife #Poetry #PadraigOTuama #SelfDiscovery #Identity #PersonalGrowth #Grief #LifeLessons #EmotionalHealing #TruthTelling #Purpose #HumanConnection #Wisdom

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