Why So Many of Us Feel Stuck (What’s Really Going On) - Martina Hegarty | E12 episode artwork

EPISODE · Jan 12, 2026 · 1H 56M

Why So Many of Us Feel Stuck (What’s Really Going On) - Martina Hegarty | E12

from Human Kinder · host Cian Mc Enroe

Many of us feel stuck at some point in life. We try to think our way out of it, push harder, or tell ourselves we should be more grateful. And when none of that works, it can start to feel personal.In this conversation, Martina and I explore what’s really going on underneath that feeling of being stuck. We talk about how unprocessed emotion lives in the body, how grief and loss can quietly shape our lives, and why so much of what we carry isn’t a personal failure, but a natural response to what we - and our ancestors - have been through.We speak about intuition, conditioning, the nervous system, and what happens when we stop trying to fix ourselves and start listening instead. Martina and I are both Irish, so this conversation may resonate especially with anyone carrying Irish ancestry, while still speaking to much broader human experiences.After we finished recording, Martina offered to do some healing work with me. During that session, a layer of blocked grief that I’d been carrying in my heart shifted in a way I didn’t expect. It felt important to share that here, because conversations on healing can feel theoretical whilst the experience is oh so very real.To connect with Martina: https://www.celticheartandsoul.com.au/ or instagram https://www.instagram.com/celticheartsoul/More on Human Kinder: https://linktr.ee/humankinder00:00 Episode Trailer01:03 Introduction - Quantum Mechanics and Energy Bodies02:35 Understanding Energy Healing and Conditioning04:58 The Role of Beliefs in Healing07:30 Mind-Body-Spirit Synergy14:07 Practical Applications of Energy Healing24:52 The Power of Intention and Higher Self Connection37:54 Ancestral Healing and Personal Transformation01:01:36 Questioning Happiness and Self-Discovery01:02:31 Understanding People Pleasing and Resentment01:03:18 The Pain of Letting Go and Deconditioning01:03:54 Questioning Life's Desires and Living Authentically01:04:52 Core Beliefs and Ancestral Healing01:06:14 Masculine and Feminine Dynamics in Healing01:07:23 Impact of the Feminist Movement on Gender Roles01:08:52 Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energies01:11:17 Healing Through Inner Masculine and Feminine Work01:11:59 Challenges in Relationships and Self-Trust01:25:20 The Importance of Community and Work-Life Balance01:28:25 Envisioning a New World and Human Potential01:37:35 Leaving a Legacy Through Healing and Conscious Parenting01:42:25 Facing Fears and Embracing Freedom01:45:29 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Living Authentically01:47:38 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Many of us feel stuck at some point in life. We try to think our way out of it, push harder, or tell ourselves we should be more grateful. And when none of that works, it can start to feel personal.In this conversation, Martina and I explore what’s really going on underneath that feeling of being stuck. We talk about how unprocessed emotion lives in the body, how grief and loss can quietly shape our lives, and why so much of what we carry isn’t a personal failure, but a natural response to what we - and our ancestors - have been through.We speak about intuition, conditioning, the nervous system, and what happens when we stop trying to fix ourselves and start listening instead. Martina and I are both Irish, so this conversation may resonate especially with anyone carrying Irish ancestry, while still speaking to much broader human experiences.After we finished recording, Martina offered to do some healing work with me. During that session, a layer of blocked grief that I’d been carrying in my heart shifted in a way I didn’t expect. It felt important to share that here, because conversations on healing can feel theoretical whilst the experience is oh so very real.To connect with Martina: https://www.celticheartandsoul.com.au/ or instagram https://www.instagram.com/celticheartsoul/More on Human Kinder: https://linktr.ee/humankinder00:00 Episode Trailer01:03 Introduction - Quantum Mechanics and Energy Bodies02:35 Understanding Energy Healing and Conditioning04:58 The Role of Beliefs in Healing07:30 Mind-Body-Spirit Synergy14:07 Practical Applications of Energy Healing24:52 The Power of Intention and Higher Self Connection37:54 Ancestral Healing and Personal Transformation01:01:36 Questioning Happiness and Self-Discovery01:02:31 Understanding People Pleasing and Resentment01:03:18 The Pain of Letting Go and Deconditioning01:03:54 Questioning Life's Desires and Living Authentically01:04:52 Core Beliefs and Ancestral Healing01:06:14 Masculine and Feminine Dynamics in Healing01:07:23 Impact of the Feminist Movement on Gender Roles01:08:52 Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energies01:11:17 Healing Through Inner Masculine and Feminine Work01:11:59 Challenges in Relationships and Self-Trust01:25:20 The Importance of Community and Work-Life Balance01:28:25 Envisioning a New World and Human Potential01:37:35 Leaving a Legacy Through Healing and Conscious Parenting01:42:25 Facing Fears and Embracing Freedom01:45:29 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Living Authentically01:47:38 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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