why the "soft girl era" is actually ruining your life & goals

In this conversation, Stella Rae explores the complexities of the soft girl lifestyle, discussing its appeal and potential pitfalls. She delves into the impact of hustle culture and burnout, the influence of parenting on adult relationships, and the importance of finding balance in romantic partnerships. She discusses recent events such as the Diddy trial, the ACE Family, DDG & Halle, & takeaways we can make. The discussion also touches on recognizing toxic relationships and navigating the dating scene, sharing personal experiences and insights along the way. Enjoy & dont forget to tweet/ig story me a screenshot of you listening!MY NEW WEBSITE!! Shop merch, sign up for my newsletter, book a coffee chat, & more: http://stellaraeherself.comGet $1000 off the health coach certification program I'm doing with promo code STELLACOACHING https://www.shareasale.com/u.cfm?d=1281553&m=96296&u=1030263I edit using Riverside! https://www.riverside.fm/?utm_campaign=campaign_5&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_source=rewardful&via=stella-holtshop my new glo up merch!! https://stellarae.myspreadshop.com/instagram http://instagram.com/stellaraepodcastlisten to and/or support the podcast: https://anchor.fm/stella-raetiktok: http://tiktok.com/@stellaraeherselftwitter: http://twitter.com/stellaraegoodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/10449999-stella-raemy fav books/products/health: https://www.amazon.com/shop/stellaraemy current filming set up:camera: https://amzn.to/4cEQiLOmicrophone: https://amzn.to/3Z2A5gctripod: https://amzn.to/3AEmxgKring light: https://amzn.to/3XxZrShbox lights: https://amzn.to/4e1Q1Ubportable light for phone: https://amzn.to/3XxZspjjoin my patreon for ad-free episodes, early access, merch discounts, behind the scenes, & more! https://www.patreon.com/stellaraepodlisten on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2DMbeh7EqiqgROIjvW0sI9listen on apple podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-stella-rae-podcast/id1255618182TakeawaysThe soft girl lifestyle can romanticize self-care but may also promote unhealthy dependency.Burnout is a common reaction to hustle culture, leading many to seek a softer lifestyle.Parenting styles significantly impact how young men and women navigate relationships.Independence and self-sufficiency are crucial in romantic partnerships.Recognizing red flags in relationships can prevent emotional and financial abuse.It's important to maintain personal goals and not lose oneself in a relationship.Self-care and rest are essential for mental health and well-being.Navigating the dating scene requires awareness of potential red flags.You should never feel pressured to compromise your values for a partner.Healthy relationships are built on mutual respect and shared responsibilities.Chapters00:00 The Soft Girl Lifestyle: A Double-Edged Sword05:37 Burnout and the Reaction to Hustle Culture11:48 The Impact of Parenting on Adult Relationships17:18 Finding Balance in Relationships and Independence22:49 Strategies for Self-Care and Personal Growth28:04 The Importance of Rest and Self-Care30:03 Understanding Toxic Relationships and Abuse37:43 Recognizing Patterns in Abusive Dynamics39:50 Navigating the Dating Scene53:02 Final Thoughts and Listener Engagement#StellaRaePodcast