Why We Avoid What We Deeply Want

In this honest episode, I unpack a quiet but powerful force that holds so many founders back: self-doubt. But not the loud, obvious kind. We're talking about the sneaky version that disguises itself as being "too busy," needing more clarity, or putting clients first.Through storytelling and real talk, I explore how this subtle form of self-doubt can convince us to put our deepest dreams on hold, often indefinitely. I share my own journey of pushing my ambitions to the backburner, and the turning point that helped me reclaim my vision, one small step at a time.This episode will help you:Recognise the hidden ways self-doubt shows up in your life and businessUnderstand why it matters (because life's too short not to go after what you want)Reframe self-doubt as a sign you care, not a signal to stopDiscover gentle, strategic ways to move forward — even with fear in the roomIf you've ever found yourself stuck in procrastination, perfectionism, or putting everyone else first, this one's for you.Ready to go further? Sign the pact and join the Quietly Disruptive movement. It's free and takes seconds.Sign the Pact and every week you'll receive Field Notes, my weekly letter where I share what the Quietly Disruptive path really looks like behind-the-scenes. You'll also receive exclusive invitations to workshops, in-person meetups, and experiences you won't find anywhere else.Link: https://www.beckybenfieldhumberstone.com/signthepactRead my story of how I became a Quietly Disruptive business coach, which involves over twenty-five years of building businesses and model horses (#notatypo).Link: https://www.beckybenfieldhumberstone.com