Why We Don't Do ABA Therapy: An Autism Mom Speaks

Buckle up, because this one may be a bit controversial….   In this episode, "Why We Don't Do ABA Therapy: An Autism Mom Speaks," I talk about our decision to not pursue Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) therapy for our two autistic kids.    I understand that every family's journey with autism is unique, and ABA therapy may have its benefits in certain, limited circumstances, but I want to shed light on our perspective and the alternative therapies we've chosen to prioritize.   As autism parents, we strive to make informed decisions based on what we genuinely believe is best for our children.    My husband and I continuously learn, explore different options, and align our choices with the specific needs of our kids. Our focus is on embracing their individuality, respecting their autonomy, and creating a supportive environment where they can thrive.   In this episode, we discuss why we have chosen not to pursue ABA therapy for our children. We touch on therapies such as speech therapy, occupational therapy, and play therapy that prioritize overall well-being and individual needs, while also providing specific strategies to address challenges.   We also address concerns about ABA therapy's potential long-term effects and its heavy reliance on adult-led instruction…as well as the fact that many adult autistics are strongly opposed to the practice and have had severe, long-lasting consequences from it.    Rather than using ABA, we prioritize teaching our children critical thinking, self-expression skills, self-advocacy skills, and the ability to set boundaries. We want to empower them to navigate the world confidently and stand up for themselves, particularly in the face of unique safety concerns and risks that autistic individuals, especially women, often face.   Whether you’ve done ABA in the past, are currently doing it, or you’re considering it for your child, I urge you to listen to today’s episode. It could have a huge impact not only on your child but the relationship you have with them now, and into the future. Resources Mentioned in This Episode Chris Bonello, Autistic Author and Advocate - Autistic Not Weird   Pathological Demand Avoidance in Autistic Children: What Autism Parents Need to Know   Thriving Together: Positive Parenting Tips for Families Living with Autism   The Hidden Consequences: Exploring the Negative Side of Autism Warrior Parenting New episodes of NeurOrdinary are released every Thursday…be sure to like, subscribe, and leave a comment or review letting me know what you think. And as always, keep it spicy!