Why We (DON'T) talk about CSA with Jeremy Indika

Get in touch with us at The P PodMost of us find it incredibly uncomfortable to discuss child sexual abuse openly—and for good reason. Jeremy Indika, founder of Something to Say and advocate for survivors, joins us to unravel why talking about abuse remains taboo and how we can break down those barriers. His powerful personal story, alongside expert insights, shines a light on the unseen complexities that make it so hard for children and adults alike to speak up—and why staying silent is the biggest risk of all.You’ll discover:The subtle signs and manipulative tactics abusers use to keep children silent and examples from Jeremy’s own experience. How our current conversations and protective measures might be outdated and what new approaches can empower children to disclose safely. The importance of shifting perceptions: viewing abuse through a child’s lens and understanding why pleasure or confusion can complicate their responses. Practical strategies for professionals and parents to foster confidence, trust, and open dialogue with children—without adding to their shame or confusion. Why engaging directly with offenders can be part of prevention—and how a science-based, rational approach can help us understand and disrupt grooming behaviours before harm occurs. This episode is essential listening for anyone working with children—teachers, social workers, youth workers, and parents—who want to move beyond fear and stigma to truly protect and empower young lives. Jeremy’s insights challenge us all to rethink our responses and build a safer, more open future.Jeremy Indika is a passionate advocate, founder of Something to Say, and a survivor who uses his experiences to educate and reform safeguarding practices across sectors.To find out more go to https://jeremyindika.com/Reflective Questions from this Episode:1. How can we create a safe and supportive environment for children to disclose abuse without fear of judgment or repercussions.2. In what ways can our current safeguarding practices be improved to better identify and respond to subtle signs of abuse?3.How can we engage with offenders in a way that contributes to prevention and understanding, while maintaining the safety and dignity of survivors?Further details of topics discussed can be found on the SSCP Website: somersetsafeguardingchildren.org.ukIf you have any comments or questions from this podcast, or would like to be involved in a future episode please get in touch at [email protected] To access the transcript for this episode go to The P Pod (somersetsafeguardingchildren.org.uk) and click on the episode for details.