Why We Stopped Waiting (and What It’s Costing Us)
Justin explores the lost art of waiting through the lens of Advent, desire, and one unforgettable Arcade Fire lyric. He argues that the modern obsession with immediate results—whether through technology, consumption, or constant stimulation—silences the deeper work longing is meant to do in us. Waiting isn’t punishment; it’s formation. This episode offers an honest, grounded invitation to slow your pace, sit with your own desire, and rediscover the parts of your life that only grow in stillness.
Episode 196 of the At Sea with Justin McRoberts podcast, hosted by Justin McRoberts, titled "Why We Stopped Waiting (and What It’s Costing Us)" was published on December 5, 2025 and runs 4 minutes.
December 5, 2025 ·4m · At Sea with Justin McRoberts
Summary
Justin explores the lost art of waiting through the lens of Advent, desire, and one unforgettable Arcade Fire lyric. He argues that the modern obsession with immediate results—whether through technology, consumption, or constant stimulation—silences the deeper work longing is meant to do in us. Waiting isn’t punishment; it’s formation. This episode offers an honest, grounded invitation to slow your pace, sit with your own desire, and rediscover the parts of your life that only grow in stillness.
Episode Description
• Why “waiting” feels harder now than it did a decade ago
• What Arcade Fire’s “We Used to Wait” reveals about our relationship to speed
• The spiritual value of slowness—especially during Advent
• How desire clarifies identity rather than feeding consumption
• A practical invitation: choose something you want, pause before getting it, and explore the desire beneath the desire
• Reading from In the Low on longing, disappointment, and hope
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