EPISODE · Jul 9, 2026 · 23 MIN
Why You Can't Say No (And What It's Costing You) S2:EP5
from Words Of Encouragement Podcast · host Frankie Lubin
There's a word that's quietly draining you — and it's the nicest word you know. Yes.You say it on reflex. To your boss, your friends, your coworkers — before they even finish asking. But when the Holy Spirit nudges you to do something small? You go quiet. In this episode, Frankie Lubin (Mr. Made Different) names the thing you've been doing your whole life: the guilt-yes. Saying yes with your mouth while your spirit says no — and paying for it in private.He shows you what it's really costing you: your peace, your time, your body, your family, and the one nobody talks about — your yes to God. Because every guilt-yes you hand to people is a no you handed to Him. Frankie gets raw about a prayer he never offered at his old job, and a yes to God he finally gave while painting an old woman's house — a yes that blessed him more than anyone.Anchored in Galatians 1:10 — you can't please people and fully serve God at the same time. It's time to take your yes back.You weren't made to please them. You were Made Different.🔍 why can't I say no, how to stop being a people pleaser, saying no without guilt, people pleasing in men, saying yes to God, fear of man, boundaries and faith, how to stop being a yes man, Christian podcast for men, men's mental health, Galatians 1 10, obedience to God, Words of Encouragement Podcast, Frankie Lubin, Mr Made Different———————————————🙏 JOIN FRANKIE'S MONDAY PRAYER GROUP — 8PM EST👉 https://frankielubincoach.lovable.app📲 FOLLOW FRANKIEhttps://instagram.com/iamfrankielubin———————————————#WordsOfEncouragement #MrMadeDifferent #SayNoToPeople #ChristianMen #PeoplePleasing
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There's a word that's quietly draining you — and it's the nicest word you know. Yes.You say it on reflex. To your boss, your friends, your coworkers — before they even finish asking. But when the Holy Spirit nudges you to do something small? You go quiet. In this episode, Frankie Lubin (Mr. Made Different) names the thing you've been doing your whole life: the guilt-yes. Saying yes with your mouth while your spirit says no — and paying for it in private.He shows you what it's really costing you: your peace, your time, your body, your family, and the one nobody talks about — your yes to God. Because every guilt-yes you hand to people is a no you handed to Him. Frankie gets raw about a prayer he never offered at his old job, and a yes to God he finally gave while painting an old woman's house — a yes that blessed him more than anyone.Anchored in Galatians 1:10 — you can't please people and fully serve God at the same time. It's time to take your yes back.You weren't made to please them. You were Made Different.🔍 why can't I say no, how to stop being a people pleaser, saying no without guilt, people pleasing in men, saying yes to God, fear of man, boundaries and faith, how to stop being a yes man, Christian podcast for men, men's mental health, Galatians 1 10, obedience to God, Words of Encouragement Podcast, Frankie Lubin, Mr Made Different———————————————🙏 JOIN FRANKIE'S MONDAY PRAYER GROUP — 8PM EST👉 https://frankielubincoach.lovable.app📲 FOLLOW FRANKIEhttps://instagram.com/iamfrankielubin———————————————#WordsOfEncouragement #MrMadeDifferent #SayNoToPeople #ChristianMen #PeoplePleasing
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