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EPISODE · Feb 18, 2026 · 19 MIN

Why You Can’t Stop Comparing Yourself to Others

from This Is How You Think - Mindset Habits for Personal Growth · host Jule Kim

Text Jule :)How to stop comparing yourself to others: why the comparison trap is actually a safety problem.If you've been stuck in unhealthy comparison and wondering why do we compare ourselves to others even when we know it's bad for us, this episode is going to change what you understand about it. I kept seeing this pattern in my clients, my friends, pretty much everyone around me. They can't stop comparing and they're exhausted. So I dug into it, and what I found changed how I think about all of it.In this episode, I'm getting into:The hidden four-step cycle behind every destructive comparison cycle, including the one step nobody catchesWhy your brain treats comparison like a safety mechanism, and why "just stop comparing" has never worked for anyoneWhere your self-worth is actually attached and why that determines whether comparison wrecks you or rolls right offWhat you can actually do about itGrab my TEA Chart here.Support the showInterested in coaching with Jule?LinkedIn: @julekim / Instagram: @itsjulekim / TikTok: @itsjulekimJule’s website: https://adviceactually.com/Buy Jule’s Self-Love Affirmation Cards on AmazonWays to Support This Podcast:🌟 If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who needs it—and please leave a review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Your support helps more people find the show.

Text Jule :) How to stop comparing yourself to others: why the comparison trap is actually a safety problem. If you've been stuck in unhealthy comparison and wondering why do we compare ourselves to others even when we know it's bad for us, this episode is going to change what you understand about it. I kept seeing this pattern in my clients, my friends, pretty much everyone around me. They can't stop comparing and they're exhausted. So I dug into it, and what I found changed how I thin...

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