Why You Don’t Know Who You Are (And What Childhood Had to Do With It)

In this episode of It Was Never About The Food, Rob explores how childhood conditioning shapes adult identity — and what happens when you spend your life performing for love.If you’ve ever felt like you don’t know who you are without the people-pleasing, perfectionism, or emotional masks… this one will hit deep.We dive into:Why so many women feel like they’re “too much” or “not enough”How subtle emotional pressure in childhood creates performance-based self-worthWhat it means to take the mask off — without losing yourselfThe link between emotional safety and authenticityWhy your eating habits, spirals, or self-sabotage were never the real problemWhether you’re navigating emotional eating, identity loss, inner child work, or just trying to feel more like yourself, this episode will help you understand why you became who you became — and how to come home to the you underneath it all.🔁 You don’t need to perform to be loved. You just need to come back to who you were before the world told you to change.🎧 Press play.📲 DM Rob on Instagram with the word podcast if this episode lands.