Why You Feel Different Around Different People: Relationships Through Human Design

What if the real question in relationships isn't “Do I like you?” — but “Who do I become when I'm with you?” Inspired by Esther Perel's insight, this episode explores how Human Design + Gene Keys explain the energetic chemistry behind that feeling — and how to use it to create healthier, more honest connection. This week on the Expansive CEO Podcast, Hannah Chapman, CFP® and Lauren Ammon break down why relationships often feel less about “compatibility” and more about who you become in someone else's presence. They translate this concept through the lens of aura mechanics, connection charts, and energetic dynamics—so you can replace blame with clarity (without excusing unhealthy behavior). Explore: Why you feel like a different version of yourself around different people How aura mechanics shape attraction, friction, and ease in relationships Why “don't take it personally” is easier when you understand energetic dynamics How connection charts reveal chemistry, compromise, and recurring conflict points Why “easy” relationships can sometimes be self-abandonment in disguise How to treat people the way they are designed to be treated (platinum rule) Why self-awareness can change your relationships—and what to do when it does How split definition works, and why it matters in partnership (teaser for next episode) Discover your design, join the newsletter, and explore coaching at: https://expansiveceo.com. Don't forget to send your Human Design questions to [email protected]!