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EPISODE · Oct 22, 2025 · 24 MIN

Why You Keep Attracting Avoidant Men & How Stop the 3-6 Month Fizzle out

from Leah on Love: A Podcast on Dating and Relationships · host Meleah Manning

In this episode, I’m breaking down the frustrating pattern when a guy says he wants something serious, but a few months in, he starts to pull away and switches it up.If you keep attracting emotionally unavailable, avoidant men (the ones who seem great at first, then go cold as things head towards commitment), this one’s for you.We’ll talk through:Why avoidants actually seem “secure” at firstWhat’s actually happening when you’re wanting to check his social media and overanalyzing your last text for the 10th timeStop the brain’s rumination on “Why did he do this?”What to do when the avoidant comes back after he gets spaceHow to start becoming unavailable to avoidant love — and start attracting secure connectionSupport the showLet's connect on Instagram – send me a message @meleah_manning Learn more about Radiant Relationship Academy — a mentorship to overcome your patterns in dating & relationships and experience a healthy, fulfilling love.Enrollment now open — Book a Discovery Call for Radiant Relationship Academy.

In this episode, I’m breaking down the frustrating pattern when a guy says he wants something serious, but a few months in, he starts to pull away and switches it up. If you keep attracting emotionally unavailable, avoidant men (the ones who seem great at first, then go cold as things head towards commitment), this one’s for you. We’ll talk through: Why avoidants actually seem “secure” at firstWhat’s actually happening when you’re wanting to check his social media and overanalyzing your last ...

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In this episode, I’m breaking down the frustrating pattern when a guy says he wants something serious, but a few months in, he starts to pull away and switches it up.If you keep attracting emotionally unavailable, avoidant men (the ones who seem...

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