Why You Keep Attracting the Wrong People — And How Healing Actually Begins with Terraine LeBeau

If you’ve ever wondered “Why do I keep choosing the same kind of relationship?” — this episode will feel like oxygen.Today’s guest, Terraine LeBeau, is a relationship mentor and coach who specializes in helping women heal emotional patterns, rebuild their self-worth, and finally choose relationships aligned with who they truly are — not who their trauma taught them to be.Growing up without his parents and being raised by the grandmother who first showed him unconditional love, Terraine learned early what it means to feel both abandoned and deeply seen. That journey shaped the work he now does with women around the world — helping them understand their triggers, feel their emotions rather than suppress them, forgive themselves for what they tolerated, and break the cycles they never meant to repeat.In this conversation, Wendy and Terraine dive into:why so many women over 40 feel unworthy of lovehow childhood wounds shape adult relationshipswhy we choose partners who mirror our unhealed partshow to recognize emotional patterns in the body (chest tightness, warmth, anxiety, avoidance)the three-step awareness practice: Name It. Feel It. Learn From It.forgiveness of self as the first step to all relational healingwhy “survival mode” works…until it doesn’thow God whispers, nudges, and eventually SHOUTS when it’s time to change directionwhy accountability is the turning point to growthwhat happens when we make space (physically and emotionally) for real loveThis episode is equal parts laughter, story, truth, and holy conviction.It will meet you where you are — and lovingly challenge you to grow beyond it.Website: https://www.behindtheshades.ca/Email: [email protected] also offers a free session for anyone who references this episode. If you’re carrying a story or testimony and sense a quiet stirring to do something more with it, but you’re unsure what that next step should be, I’ve created a resource to help you discern that.The Story Discernment Guide is a reflective guide designed to help you pause, pray, and gain clarity around the story you’re stewarding — before you write, publish, or share it publicly.You can explore the Story Discernment Guide at storycalling.info.Your story is not an accident.You are healed.You are whole.You are called — and stewarding your story well matters.