Why You Keep Attracting The Wrong Relationships (And How To Fix It) | Christian De La Huerta

Why do we keep attracting the same types of relationships… no matter how much we grow?In this powerful conversation, Andy Porter sits down with transformational coach and author Christian De La Huerta to explore the hidden unconscious patterns that shape our relationships, self-worth, and personal power.Together, they uncover why most people are living and loving unconsciously, how childhood conditioning drives repeated cycles, and what it really takes to break free.This episode goes deep into: • Why you keep repeating the same relationship patterns • How low self-worth silently controls your life • The difference between ego-based power and true spiritual power • How the ego keeps you stuck • Why relationships are mirrors for your own growth • The truth about love most people misunderstand • How breathwork can unlock deep emotional healing fastChristian also shares his powerful approach to transformation, combining deep psychological insight with advanced breathwork techniques that can rapidly surface and release stored trauma.This is more than a conversation about relationships… It’s about reclaiming your power, your truth, and your authentic self.If you’ve ever felt stuck in patterns you can’t explain… this will change how you see everything.Timecodes02:00 Why the world needs a leap in consciousness 03:12 Authentic healing in an age of AI and tech 05:46 Why people repeat the same relationship patterns 07:20 Reclaiming your personal power 10:35 Soulful power vs ego power 12:20 Childhood wounds, trauma, and unconscious beliefs 14:10 Healing family patterns across generations 15:36 Quantum healing and interconnected consciousness 16:28 HeartMath, biofields, and collective connection 18:12 Worldwide meditation, the heart chakra, and healing relationships 19:44 Water, words, and the effect of energy on the body 20:35 Patriarchy, the feminine, and emotional suppression 23:16 Why men struggle with emotions and mental health 25:23 The crisis of masculinity and changing roles 28:15 Women, power, war, and the future of leadership 29:19 Why most relationships are unconscious 31:03 Looking outside ourselves for validation 31:59 Christian’s coaching and breathwork approach 33:39 Why deep breathwork should be done safely 35:13 Intuition vs ego: how to tell the difference 37:13 Growth begins outside the comfort zone 39:18 Why ego fears change 40:32 How to reconnect to yourself and your power 42:05 Technology, loneliness, and real human connection 42:52 Christian’s book Conscious Love 44:08 The 3 levels of conscious relationships 46:34 Projection in relationships and seeing yourself in others 50:06 Manifestation, relationship patterns, and self-responsibility 50:40 Why successful people still struggle in love 51:48 Redefining love: feeling love vs the act of loving 53:27 How to connect with Christian De La Huerta 54:04 Final reflections on unity, consciousness, and collective healing🔗 Connect with Us: Website: www.andy-porter.co.ukLinktree: https://linktr.ee/andyporterpsychic Instagram: @andyporterpsychicsurgeon Facebook: facebook.com/andyporterpsychicsurgeon YouTube: Andy Porter Psychic Surgeon🌀 New episodes every week — Subscribe & stay aligned.