Why You Keep Losing People Ft. Dr. Marcus Shepard

Join in the conversation!Welcome back to another episode of the Hella Chisme Podcast! The show where culture, community, and real conversation live.This is a space where we celebrate and uplift the voices and stories that don’t get told enough, and have honest conversations about the things that actually matter.Also… maybe sometimes the things that don’t. And depending on the day? I might be getting into some foolishness. And in those moments, you are more than welcome to come check me on it in the comments.Respectfully!Whatever it is we’re doing over here, we show up real. And I love that y’all continue to come back each time to listen, laugh, chime in, and be part of this community.This week, we are reaching into the Hella Chisme vault.Why do some friendships last decades while others fade without explanation?Dr. Marcus C. Shepard, tenured professor of communication and host of Off the Data Provided, breaks down his Friendship Formula: investment, emotional closeness, trust, and support. If any one of those is missing, the relationship starts to crumble.We also get into dating apps and why people stay stuck on them, whether texting and DMs count as real communication (spoiler: they do), and why great communicators actually fight MORE they just know how to resolve it.🔗 LINKS:Dr. Marcus Shepard:Connect with Dr. Marcus Shepard:"Meet Dr. Marcus C. Shepard a tenured professor in communication who studies communication, identity and diversity as they are heard within soul music, discussed by multiracial communities, and within interpersonal relationships."https://www.marcusshepard.com/Julian Winters New Book!Hella Chisme:https://linktr.ee/hellachismepodcastTopics to include: friendship formula, how to keep friends, interpersonal communication, dr marcus shepard, conflict resolution, hard conversations, communication skills, dating apps, ghosting, emotional closeness, active listening, building relationships, queer friendships, setting boundaries, trust and support, hella chisme podcast, queer podcast, communication tips, friendship advice, relationship buildingSupport the showFollow Hella Chisme for more culture, conversation, and creative storytelling. Subscribe on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube, and keep up with us on Instagram, Threads, and TikTok at @hellachismepod. Join the chisme, share the episode, and leave a review or comment to support the show.