Why You Keep People-Pleasing (and How the Nervous System Keeps You There)

from Embodied Empath · host Valerie Lundgren

If you’ve ever said yes when your body wanted to say no, felt responsible for other people’s emotions, or struggled to set boundaries without guilt, this episode is for you.In this episode of The Embodied Empath Podcast, Valerie Lundgren explores people-pleasing through the lens of the nervous system and explains why it’s not a personality trait—but a survival response known as the fawn response. You’ll learn how the nervous system uses appeasement to stay safe, why empaths are especially prone to this pattern, and how chronic self-abandonment fuels anxiety, resentment, and burnout.This episode includes a gentle somatic practice to help your body feel safe with boundaries—without forcing, explaining, or over-functioning. Healing people-pleasing starts in the body, not the mind.

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