EPISODE · Sep 19, 2026 · 14 MIN
Why You Keep Self-Sabotaging | The Hidden Question Controlling Your Decisions
from Temple Keepers · host Matthew Headden
Send us Fan MailWhy do you keep doing the opposite of what you genuinely intended to do?You set the alarm, plan the meals, schedule the workout, and promise yourself this time will be different—then real life happens and the plan disappears.Matthew explains how the hidden questions we carry from childhood can quietly influence our health, relationships, work, boundaries, food, exercise, and ability to stay consistent.Am I safe?Am I loved?Am I wanted?Am I good enough?Am I successful?Do I have a purpose?When one of those questions was answered with a “no,” we can spend years chasing a yes or desperately avoiding another no—without even realizing it.This episode will help you recognize the pattern, understand why motivation alone has never fixed it, and begin moving from fight, flight, and freeze toward truth, peace, and faithful action.📘 Free Temple Keeper Guidehttps://thetemplekeepers.com/guide🏛️ Temple Keeper Academyhttps://thetemplekeepers.com/online-academy🤝 Personalized 1:1 Coachinghttps://thetemplekeepers.com/one-on-one-coaching🌐 Temple Keepershttps://thetemplekeepers.com/Support the show
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Send us Fan Mail Why do you keep doing the opposite of what you genuinely intended to do? You set the alarm, plan the meals, schedule the workout, and promise yourself this time will be different—then real life happens and the plan disappears. Matthew explains how the hidden questions we carry from childhood can quietly influence our health, relationships, work, boundaries, food, exercise, and ability to stay consistent. Am I safe? Am I loved? Am I wanted? Am I good enough? Am I successful...
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