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EPISODE · Apr 3, 2026 · 46 MIN

Why You People Please.. And How To Stop!

from To Be Seen · host Kamsi Asuzu-Obumselu

For many of us, people pleasing is all we’ve ever known. As a recovering people pleaser, I know that too well.In this episode of To Be Seen, we explore why it feels so hard to say what you actually mean, why “no” can feel uncomfortable, and how many of us end up shaping ourselves around what feels safe, familiar, or expected.And what it looks like to begin unlearning that pattern, in a way that allows you to slowly reclaim your voice, your boundaries, and your sense of self.If you’ve ever struggled to assert boundaries, felt the need to keep the peace, or found yourself doing things out of obligation rather than truth… this one is for you.New episodes every Friday!🔔 Subscribe for more honest, reflective conversations ✨

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