Why Your Boundaries Keep Failing: Rules of Engagement, Access & Tolerance Explained (Neurodivergent + Trauma Perspective)

Ever walked away from a conversation wondering why the hell you said all that? Or felt that 3am replay loop kick in, picking apart every word? This week I’m unpacking what actually shapes our boundaries: your rules of engagement, access and tolerance; and why these get distorted fast, when you’re neurodivergent or carrying trauma. I talk about the baseline you’re still operating from without realising it, and share two tools for handing emotional responsibility back to where it belongs. This is the work that boundary scripts always skip. If you’re ready to go deeper, the workbook waitlist is open You Deserve a Peaceful Life, Sparkly Unicorn.Connect with me @the_recovery_room_podcastStart creating healthy boundaries with difficult people inside my free exclusive episode Protect Your PeaceBreak the cycle with dysfunctional family dynamics and build your rulebook of boundaries Join my waitlist for your ultimate guiding workbook to live a peaceful life from the inside out. From the perspective of me, an AuDHD millennial mum & SA survivor.