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EPISODE · May 28, 2026 · 28 MIN

Why Your Boundaries Keep Turning Into Battles

from IMPACT: Parenting with Perspective · host Ben Pugh

"Send Ben a text"Do your boundaries with your teen always turn into fights?You ask him to get off the game, do his chores, go to bed, or follow a summer rule… and suddenly you are in another battle.In this episode, Ben explains why this happens. A lot of parents think they are setting boundaries, but they are really reacting after things have already gone too far.And a reaction is not a boundary.You’ll learn why unclear rules, late conversations, and anger-based limits often lead to more pushback from your teen. Ben also shares how to set boundaries before the fight starts, so your teen knows what is expected and what will happen next.This episode will help you: Understand why your teen pushes back  Stop setting rules when you are already mad  Create clearer summer expectations  Give your teen more responsibility  Set boundaries without yelling, begging, or giving in If every rule in your house turns into an argument, this episode will help you see the pattern and start changing it.Your teen does not need you to control every choice. He needs you to lead clearly, calmly, and consistently.Are You Caught in the Parent Trap?Discover the hidden patterns that are keeping you stuck—and how to break free.Take this quick (and eye-opening) quiz to uncover which common parenting trap you’re falling into with your teen. Get a personalized roadmap to help you parent with more clarity, confidence, and connection—starting today.https://benpughcoaching.com/parent-trap-quiz

"Send Ben a text" Do your boundaries with your teen always turn into fights? You ask him to get off the game, do his chores, go to bed, or follow a summer rule… and suddenly you are in another battle. In this episode, Ben explains why this happens. A lot of parents think they are setting boundaries, but they are really reacting after things have already gone too far. And a reaction is not a boundary. You’ll learn why unclear rules, late conversations, and anger-based limits often lead to more...

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"Send Ben a text"Do your boundaries with your teen always turn into fights?You ask him to get off the game, do his chores, go to bed, or follow a summer rule… and suddenly you are in another battle.In this episode, Ben explains why this happens. A...

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