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Send us Fan Mail📖 Read: There is something Doris Lessing once observed about the human tendency to live inside our conditioning as though it were the sky — inevitable, invisible, everywhere. The conditioning she had in mind was political and social. But it applies, with aching accuracy, to the evolutionary scripts that govern desire. We inherit these patterns. We do not choose them. And for most of human history, we could not see them.We can see them now. The Norwegian researchers have given us the data. Armstrong has given us the human translation. What we do with that knowledge is, for the first time, genuinely up to us.Adolescent development of sexual misperception biases- females increasingly overperceived, males consistently underperceivedThe attractive personality- Like me, but betterToo Picky to Be Picked? Minimum Mate Standards Predict Number of Years Single, in Uncommitted and Committed RelationshipsKeys to the kingdom -Alison A. ArmstrongMaking Sense of Men A Womans Guide a Lifetime of Love Care and Attention from All Men - Alison A Armstrong.This is Heliox: Where Evidence Meets EmpathyIndependent, moderated, timely, deep, gentle, clinical, global, and community conversations about things that matter.  Breathe Easy, we go deep and lightly surface the big ideas. Support the showDisclosure: This podcast uses AI-generated synthetic voices for a material portion of the audio content, in line with Apple Podcasts guidelines. We make rigorous science accessible, accurate, and unforgettable.Produced by Michelle Bruecker and Scott Bleackley, it features reviews of emerging research and ideas from leading thinkers, curated under our creative direction with AI assistance for voice, imagery, and composition. Systemic voices and illustrative images of people are representative tools, not depictions of specific individuals.We dive deep into peer-reviewed research, pre-prints, and major scientific works—then bring them to life through the stories of the researchers themselves. Complex ideas become clear. Obscure discoveries become conversation starters. And you walk away understanding not just what scientists discovered, but why it matters and how they got there.Independent, moderated, timely, deep, gentle, clinical, global, and community conversations about things that matter.  Breathe Easy, we go deep and lightly surface the big ideas.Spoken word, short and sweet, with rhythm and a catchy beat.http://tinyurl.com/stonefolksongs