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EPISODE · Nov 21, 2025 · 20 MIN

Why Your Expression Gets Stuck & How to Free What You've Been Holding In

from Murmuration · host Sarah Matlock and Debbie Beharrell

Most of us think of expression as speaking, creating, or sharing what’s on our minds. But expression is deeper than that. It’s the way life moves through you. The way your inner world reaches the outer world. The way your body communicates long before your words do.In this episode, Sarah and Debbie explore why so many women struggle to express themselves freely, and how expression becomes tangled with performance, survival and safety. They trace expression back to its earliest roots: how babies naturally express everything they feel, and how, over time, we learn to manage, tone down and suppress what’s true.You’ll hear:✨ Why expression becomes restricted as we grow✨ How unexpressed emotion shows up as tension, exhaustion, or self-silencing✨ The difference between expression and performance✨ Why safety (not confidence) is what frees your voice✨ How your body expresses long before your mind does✨ What opens when you stop managing and let life move through youThis conversation is a gentle invitation to soften the bracing, meet what’s inside and allow even a small amount of truth to move again.🌿 Reflections to Sit WithWhat happens in your body when something true wants to be expressed?Where do you tighten, hold back, or wait for the “right moment”?Which parts of your expression were once unsafe, and are still being managed now?What might open if expression didn’t have to be perfect, only honest?No pressure. Just notice.✨ InvitationIf something stirred in you today, let it stay close. This is the work we do - creating the safety and spaciousness for expression to return in a way that is embodied, honest and free.You can find us on Instagram @sarahmatlockcoaching & @debbiebeharrellcoachingWe’d love to hear what resonated for you.

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